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Parenting is a full-time job, regardless of your situation, you’re always thinking about what you need to do to be a good parent. Especially if you have been told your family has some signs of a dysfunctional family. But in this modern age, we have many responsibilities, work, commitments, and distractions that really take over a good part of our spare time. I’m also it’s true that we do make time for the things that we love, which includes our children obviously. It can be difficult to make regular, consistent, and quality time for our children. So we need to get creative, there are many things we can do that will improve the bond with our children, and not causes problems further down the line. It doesn’t take a lot of money, or even a vast amount of effort. But it will be appreciated by your children if you implement some of these tips.
Getting your children involved with your food either on a day-to-day basis or maybe just once a week. Will encourage your child to learn how to cook for themselves. Not only that while you’re cooking together, but it you will also be improving your bond, finding out more about each other’s days, and just spending some quality time doing something productive. You can even pass down some of your skills or family recipes at the same time.
Depending on the age of your child, most of the time, children will love to be challenged at computer games. Older teenagers may be a bit more of a challenge and prefer the company of their online gaming friends. However, challenging your children to a game of Mario kart can never be a bad thing. The healthy competition and banter will improve everyone’s mood as well.
Maybe it’s just a stroll around the block after dinner, or maybe it’s a regular walk with the dog, but either way, encouraging your child to walk with you it’s actually proven to be very beneficial. Children open up and talk more to their parents during a walk. And you’re both getting some healthy exercise at the same time, win-win!
Children, especially younger ones, absolutely love picnics and eating their food in a different environment. Going to a park with some sandwiches doesn’t have to be extravagant (although it can be), however children and adults always love a picnic when the weather is fine. If your child is particularly picky at eating as well, you will find they may be more inclined to try new foods or eat more during a picnic.
Not many people relish the thought of doing the weekly shop with their children, it can be considered quite stressful. However, if you turn it into a bit of a game, and give the children a little bit of responsibility, such as crossing things off the shopping list and grabbing things from the shelf. You may find that your child actually enjoys the task. The chatting and teamwork will also feel like great quality time.
These are quite simply tasks you would do day today anyway, so turning them into parent/child time will improve your relationship with your child. Find out which one you both enjoy the most, and try and implement these as soon as possible. Time is precious, and if you can make sure you spend a good amount of it with your children.